Now that we understand unhealthy boundaries, and how they would form a barrier to Intimacy Filled Pastiming, let’s look at Healthy Boundaries, describe them, and investigate how they could help facilitate Intimacy Filled Pastiming.
Appropriate trust
Revealing a little of …
The subject of boundaries is immense. Below are some of the signs of unhealthy boundaries. Some of them are comprehensible all by themselves. I think that others are not self explanatory. Therefore, next to the signs that I think might …
Continuing our discussion about boundaries, it might be helpful to remember the image above. It is disrespectful and unkind to violate some one’s boundaries. It will put huge impediments on the road to Intimacy Filled Pastiming.
Internet Boundaries
How long …
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Everyone has boundaries but often we don’t know what they are or how to put words to them. The following will give some language with which you can consider yours.
Food Boundaries
These are so commonly disrespected! Example: You just …
Do you remember the old sitcom called the Bob Newhart Show? It ran from 1972 – 1978. I will never forget Bob Newhart acting the part of a psychologist who was treating a woman who was afraid of being …
What are boundaries? Why do we need to have boundaries?
Knowing your mate’s boundaries will provide a path to Intimacy Filled Pastiming. Boundaries set the limits for what is OK and what is NOT OK. If something is NOT OK, …
Dear Ann: My girlfriend is so mean to me. It makes me feel badly about myself. She calls me names and points out all my failings. What do you have to say?
An intimate relationship must be feathered by kindness, …
I was sitting in a group of women the other day listening to them talk about themselves in the most disrespectful manner. One woman described herself as being “such a mess and so disorganized.” When asked if she actually believed …
