For all of us on a journey to a healthy life, a life away from the RDS that caused us problems and emotional pain, the goal is a sustained Reality Clarity System and Intimacy Filled Pastiming. The RCS will allow …
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Reality Clarity Systems and Intimacy Free Pastiming
Reality Clarity Systems lend themselves to Intimacy Free Pastiming – the healthy part of it. Remember, the unhealthy part of Intimacy Free Pastiming is activities excessively done in solitude – like joining a gaming community every night until you go …
Connections between Reality Distortion Systems, Reality Clarity Systems and Intimacy Free and Intimacy Filled Pastiming
Reality Distortion Systems are based on denial. Reality Clarity Systems are based on overcoming denial and embracing a new, more accurate, perspective. Intimacy Free Pastiming is based on having activities, communications, hobbies that one can do alone or with another. …
Intimacy Filled Pastiming: Signs of Healthy Boundries
Now that we understand unhealthy boundaries, and how they would form a barrier to Intimacy Filled Pastiming, let’s look at Healthy Boundaries, describe them, and investigate how they could help facilitate Intimacy Filled Pastiming.
Appropriate trust
Revealing a little of …
Intimacy Filled Pastiming: Unhealthy Boundaries
The subject of boundaries is immense. Below are some of the signs of unhealthy boundaries. Some of them are comprehensible all by themselves. I think that others are not self explanatory. Therefore, next to the signs that I think might …
Intimacy Filled Pastiming: Boundaries – Part 3
Continuing our discussion about boundaries, it might be helpful to remember the image above. It is disrespectful and unkind to violate some one’s boundaries. It will put huge impediments on the road to Intimacy Filled Pastiming.
Internet Boundaries
How long …