Reality Clarity Systems

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Going from a Reality Distortion System to a Reality Clarity System is a process. None of this is linear. Often, those on the path find they take one step forward and two steps back. Look at how far Susan has …

Reality Distortion Systems – Part 4

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Susan will get depressed!  Susan’s family will get depressed!  Everyone but dad will be depressed because dad has been enabled to keep drinking and remain ignorant that his disease is at the root of family upheaval, RDS, and chronic disappointment.  …

Reality Distortion Systems – Part 3

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Life in a Reality Distortion System:

 

dad’s relatives – many addicts

alcoholic dad mom’s relatives – marry addicts

codependent mom

3 children

What happens?  The family falls apart and Susan gets blamed for the family’s issues.  Initially, Susan felt …

Reality Distortion Systems – Part 2

unsure woman

Example of life in a Reality Distortion System:

 

dad’s relatives – many addicts

alcoholic dad mom’s relatives – marry addicts

codependent mom

3 children

It is extremely difficult and uncomfortable to get one’s self out of a Psychological Reality …

Reality Distortion Systems – Part 1

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What is a Reality Distortion System?  It is a belief system that supports denial. One’s life is organized around the Reality Distortion Field (RDS) and this serves to cement perception distortion into one’s entire vision of what is true, and …

Reality Distortion Systems – Summary

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Just to summarize this paradigm, the basis for an RDS (Reality Distortion Systems) is denial.  The denial is embedded in a system which contains thoughts, beliefs, behaviors, and interpersonal dynamics that encapsulate those who are members of the RDS.  When …