Reality Clarity Systems – Summary 4

acceptance

Acceptance

Acceptance, in the RDS/RCS (Reality Distortion Systems / Reality Clarity Systems) context, is the internal knowledge and belief that those in our RDS, won’t change because we want them to do so, or because we have new information or …

Reality Clarity Systems

path

Going from a Reality Distortion System to a Reality Clarity System is a process. None of this is linear. Often, those on the path find they take one step forward and two steps back. Look at how far Susan has …

Reality Distortion Systems – Part 4

lonely-road

Susan will get depressed!  Susan’s family will get depressed!  Everyone but dad will be depressed because dad has been enabled to keep drinking and remain ignorant that his disease is at the root of family upheaval, RDS, and chronic disappointment.  …

Reality Distortion Systems – Part 3

facing-a-wall

Life in a Reality Distortion System:

 

dad’s relatives – many addicts

alcoholic dad mom’s relatives – marry addicts

codependent mom

3 children

What happens?  The family falls apart and Susan gets blamed for the family’s issues.  Initially, Susan felt …

Reality Distortion Systems – Part 2

unsure woman

Example of life in a Reality Distortion System:

 

dad’s relatives – many addicts

alcoholic dad mom’s relatives – marry addicts

codependent mom

3 children

It is extremely difficult and uncomfortable to get one’s self out of a Psychological Reality …